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Sassi Talks – the show you never knew you needed.

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Unleashing Your Inner Sass

Sassi Talks – the show you never knew you needed.

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By Beth Rochester

Welcome to Sassi Talks! We’re thrilled you’re here. Let us take you on a beautiful journey of self-discovery and empowerment. Through Sassi Talks, you’ll learn simple, yet effective ways to improve your mental health and overall well-being. Who doesn’t want that? 

We’ve all been there wanting to rediscover ourselves, but how many of us can say we’ve actually succeeded? Probably not many of us. That’s nothing to be ashamed of! Self-discovery is hard. Personally, my previous attempts have ended in disaster. One attempt at self-discovery landed me dancing as Tinky-Winky in the local pantomime! – don’t ask. If only I had Sassi Talks at the time to help. 

Sassi Talks is our upcoming show dedicated to interviews with top thinkers, peak performers and leaders in psychology and science to explore living your fullest life. We’re crushing years of knowledge and experience into bite-size chunks that you can digest wherever you are. 

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Our weekly series and podcast is dedicated to helping you to become your greatest self. And no, this isn’t all some ploy to get you into a Tinky-Winky costume like me! Our show will teach you meaningful ways to enhance your lifestyle, focusing on themes of self-discovery, relationships, and healing. 

Alongside our show and podcast, we have an excellent social media page and YouTube channel dedicated to giving you our Sassi top-tips. @SassiTalks can help in hundreds of ways! Our tips can remind you to take that all important break; to reach out to loved ones, and support you with quotes to help get through the day. Whatever it is, we’ve got it covered.  

No matter what issue you face in your self-discovery journey, we can help. Sassi Talks covers all the following themes and more!

  • Mental Health
  • Self-expression
  • Intuition
  • Relationships
  • The Mind-Body Connection
  • Friendship and Love
  • Loneliness
  • Self-affirmation
  • Achieving your goals 
  • Self-reflection
  • Emotional Intelligence

I for one can’t wait for Sassi Talks to be up and running. With the past year we’ve all had, Sassi Talks is just the show we need to boost our energy and kick our confidence up a notch. Stay tuned and get ready to start your self-discovery journey. We’ll be right here with you as you take that first step into becoming the person you’ve always wanted to be. 

Join Sassi Talks today and Unleash Your Inner Sass!

A Long Year of Languishing

Hello positive well-being! – you’ve been missed.

25 May 2021

By Beth Rochester

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To say the past year has been difficult would be an understatement. Simply the thought of 2020 makes me shudder; not being able to see loved ones, limits on being outside, migrating between the same few rooms each day – no thank you. 

Recently I caught up with a friend and noticed that they sat there with slumped shoulders and this kind of bleak expression. Then I realised… I was exactly the same. Both of us were sitting there in this ‘meh’ state. Not thriving, but not just surviving either. Oh no, we were languishing. 

Languishing 

​The state of being stagnated and unproductive.  

According to Keyes1, languishing is an absence of positive well-being, but also an absence of mental illness. It’s this midpoint on a continuum from depression to flourishing. You aren’t clinically depressed, but you equally aren’t the pinnacle of positive well-being. If this sounds familiar, it’s time to think – could you be languishing?

‘A Personal Checklist for Languishing’

Maybe you resonate with the idea of languishing, maybe you don’t. If you’re not sure, consider these questions regarding the 6 aspects of positive functioning2.1. Self-acceptance – When was the last time you acknowledged your own strengths and achievements? 2. Positive relations with others – Have you made the effort to keep in contact with the people you care about? 3. Purpose in life – Do you know what gives you a sense of purpose and fulfilment?4. Personal growth – What new experiences have you tried recently? What skills have you developed?5. Environmental mastery – Are you able to change what you don’t like in your surroundings?6. Autonomy – Can you confidently act by your own values and opinions?

If you’re struggling to have a positive answer to these questions, there’s a good chance you’re languishing. But don’t panic! We’ve got your back with our remedies for languishing. 

‘Remedies for Languishing’

1. Let Yourself Flow

Flow. A quick and effective fix for languishing. Flow is all about immersing yourselfin a meaningful project. According to Adam Grant3, it was the best predictor of well-being at the beginning of the pandemic. I tried this method personally by directing my attention to creating a painted rock collection. My motivation went through the roof! Who would’ve thought that painting rocks would be my get up and go? Think about what you could direct your focus to – it can be absolutely anything! Maybe this will kickstart your motivation the same way painting rocks has for me. And if you’re interested, here is my growing painted rock collection!

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Photo by Beth Rochester

2. Take that Small Win

When we have a goal, we usually tunnel vision to the end point. But it’s always disheartening when an end-goal feels far away. This is where small wins come in. The minor achievements you make can have a major impact on your positive well-being. So, take that small win! Give yourself a pat on the back! Scream ‘I did that’! Just acknowledge and smile about what you have managed to accomplish. By doing this, you can remind yourself of all the amazing things you have achieved so far. 3. Start a Success Tree

Our final remedy is all about success trees. ‘What are success trees?’, you may ask. Well, success trees are templates for figuring out how goals can be achieved. You draw a tree (it doesn’t have to be as good as Monet) and on each branch you write down a different way of how you can achieve a goal. Physically having this tree works wonders for improving motivation. You hit a snag – no problem, just move 

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onto the next branch!

With lockdown easing we want to promptly kick languishing to the curb. No more slumped shoulders or bleak expressions. No. What we want is positive well-beingand one way or another, we are going to achieve it. Only you have the power to overcome your own languishing, but we’re here with our languishing remedies to help. So, think – what are you going to do today to conquer your languishing?

References to include:

1- Keyes (2002): languishing https://www.jstor.org/stable/3090197?casa_token=fwJEdvn1aN4AAAAA%3AQIvfChbhq0PmOEUmSz3pUM08BNHQOAbs7ilN1YqzXa_i2joLxGWZCks58kooaiUFsgJqn1lbf2Kug19ZJt9XEM–jPs7KwySUXY2okfEROrv-B6opTkN&seq=1#metadata_info_tab_contents

2- Ryff & Keyes (1995): structure of positive well-being https://psycnet.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037%2F0022-3514.69.4.719

3- Adam Grant: Languishing articlehttps://www.nytimes.com/2021/04/19/well/mind/covid-mental-health-languishing.html

4- Amabile & Kramer (2011): small wins 

https://www.discoveryinaction.com.au/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/The-Power-of-Small-Wins-R1105C-PDF-ENG-2016.pdf